It is so hard to believe that they are already 14 months old. It goes by so quickly. It seems like every day they are learning how to do something new. Ella is walking all over the place by herself. She looked like "Franken-baby" for awhile with her arms out in front of her and swinging her legs out to the side. But now she is starting to get the hang of it and will walk just as soon as she would crawl - and both are about as fast! Alex has taken 4 or 5 steps on his own but he's still pretty unsteady on his feet. Helen is pretty steady on her feet but she won't risk taking a step without holding onto something. She is a very cautious and careful baby so I expect she will take her time with working up the courage to take some steps.
They are starting to talk a little. I can tell that they understand a lot of what we are saying now. If I tell them to sit down or don't touch, while they don't always do what I ask, I can tell from the mischevious smile and occassional compliance that they do in fact know exactly what I am asking them to do. Ella has "uh-oh" down. It sounds really cute but always makes me a little worried when I hear a series of "uh-ohs" coming from another room.
Our nanny Heather has been working on sign language with the kids. Helen has quite a few signs down already. Ella has a couple too. Alex still has two signs - frantic hand waving that means he needs more food, and waving bye-bye when he wants to clap. He's coming along though!
The girls are starting to give "kisses." It is really more of a touch with an open mouth but the intent is there. Yesterday I was reading Ella a book called Hugs and Kisses with Dora. She kept bending down and putting her mouth on the book. I could not figure out what she was doing until I realized that every time I was saying kiss, she was "kissing" Dora. How sweet!
We've always had a lot of books around the house and hopefully it is paying off. Ella will now go pick out a book and toddle over, plop herself in your lap, and hand you a book. She loves to sit there and read books. Her little brain seems to want to soak up as much as it possibly can.
For the most part they are playing well with each other. But they are starting to get a little, uh, agressive with each other too. They won't accept someone taking a toy from them and have figured out that they can grab it back or push someone off of a toy to get it. I try to let them figure it out even though they look at me to punish the wrongdoer. I figure it will only get worse so they need to figure out how to play together. I only get involved when an essential organ or limb is at stake :)
We are having so much fun. I would not trade triplets, THESE triplets, for anything. It is so fun to watch them grow and learn and play with each other. I've always heard that your harshest mirror is your kids and it is true. We got the kids a play cell phone. Helen took it, opened it up, put it next to her head and started "talking" into it. Cecil looked at me and said, "I wonder where she got that from?" I started to protest until I realized he was right. Who knew a one year old could mimic your behavior? And she must have seen me do it enough times to know that's what you do! Here's hoping it only gets better!!!